Up Was Given
For some reason, the main source of peer to peer sex ed when I was in high school were the jocks in the apparatus gym. Every day, sort of a creepy Socratic dialog took place there, with various conquests and tactics discussed. There wasn't much romance, and certainly no love discussed. But plenty of technique.
It seem that the consensus best plan of attack was a relentless pursuit, until "up was given". Not a lot of joy there, the aim was not union, not even conquest. The aim was abandonment.